From the category archives:

Habits & Patterns

Learning From Remorse Without Having a Self Pity Festival

When we’re dealing with regret and remorse it easy to let the feeling take over and lead us into hours of self-criticism, judgment and generally feeling crappy about it. But it’s worth finding a much more empowering and constructive way of dealing with it, so we can be less afraid of situations where we might make mistakes.

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The Curse of “You should know better”

For me, the childhood phrase “you should know better” created a world where there was no such thing as an enjoyable learning curve.

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The Myth of “I don’t feel like it” (Part I)

The state of “I don’t feel like it” actually originates from a caring intention, but then our resistance grabs a hold of it, and look out.

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What’s Colouring Your World?

First of all, I want to thank all of you who are tuning in to these posts. I find it really makes a difference to be blogging to actual people and not just into anonymous cyberspace. And one of the side effects of this seems to be that I’m coming up with a LOT more [...]

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Is Being a ‘Visionary’ One of Your Resistance Strategies?

A look at the way we can sabotage ourselves by letting our vision for the future get in the way of what we’re working on right now.

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