From the category archives:

Judgment

Could Your Doubts be Confirming Your Talent?

This post is dedicated to the lovely Ann Moller at Diva of the Word, in New York City. We met last Wednesday evening and I discovered that she’s a dedicated actor who, like all of us that care about our craft, experiences doubt about her talent and her potential to master her chosen field. As [...]

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You are NOT being punished by the Universe.

When things go wrong in your life, what do you secretly whisper to yourself? Most of us who see and know the value of “staying positive” keep our thoughts and feelings pretty upbeat when things seem to be working against us. But I would suggest that, buried underneath all that positivity, are some things that [...]

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Learning From Remorse Without Having a Self Pity Festival

When we’re dealing with regret and remorse it easy to let the feeling take over and lead us into hours of self-criticism, judgment and generally feeling crappy about it. But it’s worth finding a much more empowering and constructive way of dealing with it, so we can be less afraid of situations where we might make mistakes.

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The Curse of “You should know better”

For me, the childhood phrase “you should know better” created a world where there was no such thing as an enjoyable learning curve.

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The Aha Moment on Self-Judgment and Abundance

Most of us who are doing any kind of personal development have come across the words ‘abundance’, ‘manifestation’ and ‘law of attraction’ and one time or another. In fact, ever since the publication of The Secret, it’s been pretty hard to avoid these terms. And most of us would like to be receiving more and [...]