Comments on: You are NOT being punished by the Universe. http://www.theheartsvoice.com/judgment/secret-fears/ essential Guidance when What You've Said Yes to is Bigger Than You Wed, 23 Nov 2011 07:03:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Susan http://www.theheartsvoice.com/judgment/secret-fears/comment-page-1/#comment-478 Susan Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:23:39 +0000 http://www.theheartsvoice.com/?p=939#comment-478 Thanks so much for sharing a lurking fear Jill! That imposter syndrome is always a classic. = > The funny thing is that we each have a like a little satellite dish in our brain scanning our environment for evidence that proves these crazy fears. And if the fear has been there a while, we have a seeming "mountain" of collected evidence - none of which was really true, because a part of us was projecting that belief on our world all along. That's why it's so great to say them out loud and challenge them! Thanks so much for sharing a lurking fear Jill! That imposter syndrome is always a classic. = >

The funny thing is that we each have a like a little satellite dish in our brain scanning our environment for evidence that proves these crazy fears. And if the fear has been there a while, we have a seeming “mountain” of collected evidence – none of which was really true, because a part of us was projecting that belief on our world all along.

That’s why it’s so great to say them out loud and challenge them!

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]]> By: Jill Chivers http://www.theheartsvoice.com/judgment/secret-fears/comment-page-1/#comment-476 Jill Chivers Wed, 21 Jul 2010 03:23:53 +0000 http://www.theheartsvoice.com/?p=939#comment-476 hi Susan I found my head nodding at so much of what you've said here. I don't have a problem with procrastination in the form you've described above -- (my motto is usually "when in doubt, DO") -- but I can relate to the fears that seem to be sitting there on the sideline, just waiting to sabotage! For me, this is part of the story I allow myself to tell myself. I'm a fraud and will soon be found out. I have nothing worth offering that anyone would want. It's easy to find "evidence" for these kinds of insidious and poisonous messages, and it takes effort to change the story to something more life supporting and soul uplifting. Your course to help us get to the underlying patterns sounds divine! What a gift it will be to those of us who are good at putting a positive spin on ANYTHING but find those dark thoughts creeping up time and again! hi Susan
I found my head nodding at so much of what you’ve said here. I don’t have a problem with procrastination in the form you’ve described above — (my motto is usually “when in doubt, DO”) — but I can relate to the fears that seem to be sitting there on the sideline, just waiting to sabotage! For me, this is part of the story I allow myself to tell myself. I’m a fraud and will soon be found out. I have nothing worth offering that anyone would want. It’s easy to find “evidence” for these kinds of insidious and poisonous messages, and it takes effort to change the story to something more life supporting and soul uplifting.

Your course to help us get to the underlying patterns sounds divine! What a gift it will be to those of us who are good at putting a positive spin on ANYTHING but find those dark thoughts creeping up time and again!

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